Encouragement, Growth, and Heart: Rachel & Gabby

Since being matched in July 2023, Gabby and her Big Sister Rachel have developed an incredibly sweet and meaningful bond. Rachel has become a consistent, calming, and encouraging presence in Gabby’s life. She is someone who celebrates Gabby's strengths while helping her navigate new challenges and experiences.

Gabby is known for her bright personality and expressive spirit. She approaches life with curiosity, humor, and a heart full of love.

Rachel does a fantastic job setting clear boundaries and expectations so Gabby knows which behaviors are acceptable when they are together. Like many kids, Gabby enjoys testing limits from time to time, but Rachel is intentional about turning those moments into gentle teaching opportunities. She helps Gabby see things from new perspectives while reinforcing positive behaviors in a supportive way.

Whether they’re exploring the zoo, attending BBBS events, enjoying activities at Rachel’s house, or cheering each other on at races and outings, their time together is always filled with meaningful connection, structure, and joy.

A major strength of this match is the wonderful partnership between Rachel and Gabby’s mom, Gloria. They communicate openly, support one another, and truly work as a team—something that has strengthened the match tremendously. Their shared TimeTree calendar keeps scheduling simple and stress-free, helping ensure Gabby continues to have consistent one-on-one time with her Big.

Over the months, Gabby and Rachel have experienced meaningful growth both individually and together as a match. Rachel introduced a behavioral star chart that Gabby responds to incredibly well. Gloria proudly shared the day Gabby earned a “Diamond Day,” which meant she got to choose a special outing—an achievement that clearly reflected her hard work and progress.

Since being matched, Gabby has also begun receiving fewer behavioral marks at school. Her confidence, focus, and self-regulation continue to improve. It’s hard not to attribute part of that progress to the stability, encouragement, and positive reinforcement Rachel consistently provides.

Rachel has experienced personal growth as well. She shared that their relationship has helped her become a more intentional listener, tuning in with the purpose of truly understanding Gabby before responding. She’s also developed greater patience and more thoughtful communication—skills she uses to help Gabby feel seen, heard, and valued.

This match continues to thrive, supported by consistent communication, shared goals, and a genuine affection between everyone involved. Gabby absolutely adores her Big Sister, and Rachel continues to show up with compassion, creativity, and heart.

Their story is a beautiful reminder of the powerful impact a caring mentor can have, and how that impact often flows both ways.